Friday, December 24, 2010

Paani puri ke side effects

I am finally done with attending all the weddings. I was supposed to go to Pune to attend my friend's reception, but health finally gave up. Bad throat and cough thanks to the food and drinks I had for the past one week!

Now, I am highly allergic to mint. This is the reason I cannot have any food item which has mint. We do not use mint in most recipes, so I do not miss much; but one of my most favourite chats - Pani Puri or Golgappa - it has mint. And I cannot eat that :(

I usually have good control over my taste buds, but this time around, when you have 5-6 bhukkad friends around you, it's difficult to control!

For each of the three weddings and various functions that I attended, I had a group of friends around me. We were hogging onto the starters as if we had not eaten for years! Whatever was coming our way, we were eating that in HUGE quantity! Be it some mughlai starter or a chinese one, regular veg koftas to juices-mocktails-soft drinks name it and you see us having it!

And Lunch! One poor guy took Basundi at least four times; each time he was unsuccessful in even tasting a drop! Someone or the other was taking away the bowl the moment he refilled! Reason - just for fun!

Then there was Paani Puri counter! We went there, thinking we would simply taste one or two! It started flowing in and without realizing, we had quite a few of them.

I got an upset stomach and bad throat thanks to all the hogging that we did over a period of four days! And thanks to that, I could not attend my close friend's reception at Pune! Ah, missed one hogging party!

I am off to MP tonight. A mini vacation I deserve. And it may sound strange, but this is my first ever vacation of my own money! So far, family sponsored the vacations even though I was earning. But this time around, it's different. It's going to be a budget trip - not because it's my own money, but because that's the fun part of the trip according to me and three other friends who are accompanying me. We are going to travel by train and stay in non star hotels! I am very much looking forward to it. Those on my facebook will see the pictures soon. Those who read me may be disappointed a bit as I am pathetic at writing travelogues. Nevertheless, if I come across interesting people on the tour, they will surely be blogged about!

So, until next week, ciao!

PS: For my convenience, I have removed comment moderation. So be careful while posting any love messages :P

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Weddings!

It's wedding season all around us. Each day, there is some or the other wedding happening. First, people spend money to get married, then they spend money to raise the reason behind the marriage. Some times, the reasons are more than one! 

Don't get me wrong. I love kids. I am very fond of them; but when I see the ever exploding population, my mind tells me to give gyaan to all those who are yet to know the meaning of family planning and who strongly believe in "hum do, humare do. zyada ho to phek do". Isn't it better if one plans for one kid only so as to do one's bit to control the population a bit?

Anyway, this post is not about the gyaan on population either. I have to attend a few weddings and receptions in this week. I went for a very close friend's Mahendi function today and applied mahendi on both the hands! I love it. It always make me feel very happy. I love the smell and the look of it on hands. Here is a pic for you!

Isn't it lovely? :)

Now, a typical Indian wedding has many advantages - good food, happy and cheerful people around you, mahendi, meeting old friends and such. But the worst part of it - shaadi.com! A few aunties are always ready with numerous proposals for you even before you open your mouth to say that you are already married! Prospective brides and grooms will be bestowed upon you the moment you enter the wedding hall (hole if it is a gujju wedding!)

I have to attend such weddings in this week! And I am planning to carry a board with me which says - Not available for shaadi.com! Hope it works!

PS: Busy time ahead. After attending 2 weddings and 4 functions, I am going on a mini vacation I truly deserve. I will be back before the new year and another outstation business trip to a hill station awaits in the first week of January. I will try to be as regular as possible on this space as I miss blogging so much!

PPS: It was my birthday on the 14th of this month. But I am still accepting belated wishes (even advance ones for the next year for that matter!). 

Tuesday, December 07, 2010

Mother's "Love"



Don't we all love our mothers? 

But most of us get scared when our mothers express their love for us in the form of food, pampering in public, praising us in front of "marriageable prospects", choosing clothes for us - the list is quite long!

I get scared too sometimes when my mom starts talking about my qualification in front of those perpetually gossiping aunties. She even mentions the courses I left mid way or still pursuing. Ah it does get embarrassing some times as it's not a big deal to be a double graduate and double post graduate; is it? :P

Luckily for me, her habit of stuffing my stomach till it bursts is no problem at all as I am blessed with high metabolism (thank god!) and thin/fat kind of things don't matter to me much. But it does make me very much lazy! Like I have this typical gujju habit of taking a nap in the noon. Since I have my own firm and my work is not time bound, I can do that. But such a habit proves tricky when I have a client meet or a visit to retainer clients.

These days, she has made a Saturday night schedule for me. She oils my hair each Saturday. There is some home made oil she has got from somewhere. She empties at least 200 grams of it in my hair and makes me a champu! No matter at what time I return home, I have to become champu once a week! Poor me!!

And those stories of their times about how they listened to their mothers and never cribbed about the quantity of food, or the oil in hair, or even the gossip part for that matter. Ah, talk of the times 30 years back and now. But I do not mention that out of fear of starving myself for an hour! After that, she is my mother and she will give me food anyway :P

And that's the most beautiful thing about her and all the mothers. Whatever they do, they do for us. Unconditionally. Since the time we are born, they make us their priority. They make us cry but cry for us too, they sacrifice their career, lifestyle, social circle, outings and many more things just to give us a perfect upbringing.

Ah, there is no special occasion today. I just felt like sharing something emotional, thus this post. What does irritate you in a nice way about your mother or father? Do share it in the comment box :)

Thursday, December 02, 2010

Tweenhood Tag - a Recap

I took up this tag more than a year back. At that time I was very new to blogging. I had a handful of readers (which is still the case though :P) but somehow I felt that my writing had a kind of magic which I lack these days. Well maybe a year down I will feel the same way about these posts too. Older they become, more magical they seem. Now, I have the habit of reading posts I wrote in the past just to see what I thought about a year or so back, how I reacted to a situation, how different I am right now. This helps me introspect many things and thoughts.

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my take 12 on things I would like to achieve in my twenties…

1. I would like to write a book...at this moment, i am exploring few subjects...will zero on one soon...

I already wrote a law book. Achieved :-)

2. I want to be the world ambassador for all kinda sports so that i can view whatever sports I want to and be a part of it.

LOL. This point came after a "who-gives-a-better-answer" point about sports. Not too practical for my 20s, but not an impossible wish too right?

3. To remove the reservation quota from everywhere (sorry for hurting the feelings of those who favour it)...but it decreases the number of seats everywhere for the deserving people...so let's not only believe, but apply the principle of equality...

Again, an impractical thing to aim for for 20s

4. Be a part of last harry potter movie...

I wish I could have been a part of it :(

5. To be a part of our politics as an honest leader...

Work will soon be in progress :P

6. own the largest book and movie library....

As per my standard, I am almost there with around 1000+ DVDs and books

7. ok, a realistic take, which i sure will achieve before going into my 30s - to make my law firm very well established as a first step to reach on the top..:) and start an LPO..

Again, almost there :-)

8. A fun holiday to Australia and an adventurous one at NZ...

Again, it will happen before I become 30

9. spend one whole month at mum's..i really miss her n dad n bro...n post marriage the longest period i have stayed there was for a week...

Achieved :-)

10. go back to college and have a grand reunion party which lasts for few days...i miss my Sydenham days :(

I met quite a few of them recently. So, almost achieved.

11. own a property in goa...love tht place...

I don't know when will that happen as my priority has been shifted to another location for now :P

12. end of terrorism and corruption - everywhere...and yes World Peace (beauty pageant ishtyle!!!)

I SO wish to achieve it! Don't know when will that happen though!

Ah, it feels nice to have achieved a few "practical" things while I am still in my twenties. What is your wishlist?